Self monitoring and dating relationships when it goes from dating to a relationship
Pre-marital couples are harder to study though research shows an estimated 4.4 million college students (20-40% of all students in some studies) are in LDRs.
One study of dating relationships estimated 1 in 7 (14%) were long-distance.
Extrapolating from census data it is likely that 3.5 million dating couples are long-distance.
Overall, there are just over 7 million couples (14-15 million individuals) in the US who consider themselves in a long distance relationship.
Common sense suggests that because partners can’t keep an eye on one another they might be more prone to wander.
Researchers have examined whether couples in long distance relationships have more affairs than geographically close couples. The good news is that all three studies showed that couples in long distance relationships had no greater risk of having an affair than geographically close couples.
Back to top, click here The most challenging aspect of a long distance relationship is maintaining the feeling of simply being part of one another’s lives.
Couples that see one another only once a week or once a month often can feel disconnected from their partner.
I realize that this seems contrary to common sense, so in the book (Long Distance Relationships) I discuss in more detail each of the studies that looked at this question.Back to top, click here Compared to 2000 there are 839,000 more long-distance marriages in 2005.There was a 23% relative increase in the rate of long-distance marriages between 20 (2.36% of marriages in 2000 and 2.9% of marriages in 2005).Being there to listen, support and believe your friend is the best thing you can do.Remember, as much as you may want to, you can’t rescue your friend and you can’t solve her/his problems.