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I’m going to mention three examples of women I’ve known.
When I was a senior in high school, a very attractive girl in my graduating class suddenly started losing weight.
Not the women who appear to have just been released from concentration camps. In the UK, women like Nigella Lawson are drooled over. That said, I know one or two women who are slender as a willow-wand yet highly attractive. Just telling a woman she’s attractive isn’t enough. The average American is exposed to 3,000 images of women per day.
Catwalk models clothes hangars with barely any more far than one. Razor sharp wits, fun personality, superb low-key yet elegant dress sense plays a part. That’s a silly question because there are a lot of sizes in between 0 and 14. Mere Exposure Research started in 1876 and has proven over and over that we develop preferences for what is familiar whether we consciously reject the messages or not.
She was still too skinny, but she was convinced she was too big.
Last, the most attractive woman I know isn’t anorexic and never has been, but because she have a normal-sized body, she’s convinced that she’s unattractive.
She started falling asleep in class and this previously attractive girl started taking on a “death camp survivor” look.
If it happens to work for you because of your genetics, that’s fine.
But, honestly, I’m not going to find you as attractive as the fuller-figured women. If you’re a man, I’m curious what you really think.
Take a look at the photos in the Plus Model magazine spread and tell me whether the waif or the bigger woman is more attractive to you. The bigger woman is a size 12-14, according to her bio.
To normal people, that sounds skinny, but she thought she was far too big, because she had been only 112 pounds in high school.
She had “ballooned” to 128 by the time she was 28 years old.